Blindness

Why can all the people around you see the obvious and you can't, especially when it comes to relationships? Are these people challenges made specifically for us, or is the lesson in seeing how inappropriate people are, even in the face of feeling affection towards them?

Why am I attracted to needy, narcissistic people, and not grounded, happy, financially stable people? What aspect of MY personality does this serve? What wound of mine does this serve? It keeps me distracted from the work I need to focus on - it creates drama, so I'm too busy to stop and reflect. Too agitated to let the little voice inside have a say, and it keeps me from having to confront her needs for security.

Much has come up for me in the past few days.