Do the scales finally fall?

In a conversation an evening or two ago, I almost audibly heard the penny drop. The BB was explaining that he is unhappy, and the reasons for that are a lack of motivating elements in his life, a lack of me spending regular quality time with him, a lack of a consistent coffee delivery service. I asked, well, don't you have people that you made commitments to? Isn't that a reason to get out of bed? Apparently not. Also, not willing to work on a business plan for what is actually a good idea because he doesn't want to write something that will, of course, need to be rewritten. And I feel the subtext to all of this is: Please come over here and take care of all this for me. Give me my motivation back. Bring me coffee. Write my business plan.

Do I need to say that this all holds very little interest for me? I have so much of my own stuff going on, I really do not need to be living someone else's life for them.